What do you say when you meet an English speaker?
If you don't know the person, you say:
"How do you do? My name is — —. I'm pleased to meet you." And you shake the person's hand. If the person is older than you are, you say, "How do you do, sir?" (man) or "How do you do, ma'am?" (woman). "Ma'am" is short for "madam," which means "my lady."
North Americans, Australians and British people expect you to look in their eyes when you shake hands. If you look away, they think you are shy.
If you know the person, you don't have to shake hands. You smile and say:
"Good morning! How are you?" (until 12:00 noon)
"Good afternoon! How are you?" (from 12:00 until about 5:00 or 6:00 in the afternoon)
"Good evening! How are you?" (from 5:00 or 6:00 until you go to bed)
If the other person asks you first, you say: "Good morning! Very well, thank you. How are you?"
If you see the person again that day, you can say, "Hello," or "Hi." Or you can just smile and nod if you pass each other in the hall.
If you are good friends, you say hello differently:
"Hi, how are you?" or:
"Hi, good to see you!" or:
"Hey, how's it going?"
The answer is also informal:
"I'm fine, thanks! How about you?" or:
"Great! You?" or:
"OK!"
If you are feeling ill, or you're unhappy, don't tell the other person unless it's a good friend!
"Hi, how are you?"
"OK, thanks."
To a good friend:
"Oh, I feel awful. I have a cold, and I got a bad grade on the test."
"That's too bad! I'm sorry to hear it."
Sometimes we enjoy "small talk":
"Isn't this a beautiful day!"
"Yes, it's lovely!"
"Can you believe how hard it's raining?"
"Terrible! I hope tomorrow is better."
"Oh, you've cut your hair! It looks great!"
"Thank you. It was getting too long."
When we end the conversation, we say different things:
"Excuse me. I must leave now, but I've enjoyed talking with you." (formal)
"It's been a pleasure." (formal)
"I've got to run, but thanks for this." (informal)
"It was fun. Talk with you soon, I hope. (informal)
"Gotta run. Catch you later." (very informal)
"Take care!" (very informal)
Do you know other ways to say hello and goodbye in English?
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